08/10 - Fudge Friday!

[savvy]

I really didn't get much done yesterday other than we took our son to college. This should be pretty interesting how this plays out...we went on vacation with him and he tried to bang some girl within a day while having a girlfriend.

Now before leaving we asked him if he needed condoms and he's like "I'm not cheating on my girlfriend" it's like uh huh sure...I guess I just don't understand why you would want to keep a relationship when you're leaving for college and she's still in high school.

Oh well overall I think it'll be good for him since he needs some real world experience and he honestly had become to comfortable in life.

kids are dumb lol. I mean I wasn't at that age, but some are. it's natural i think

 

[themildone]

holy crap my almost-3-year-old just spelled the first 4 letters of his name! I didn't even know he could do that!!!

 

[Mecca]

kids are dumb lol. I mean I wasn't at that age, but some are. it's natural i think

He already broke up with her once trying to bang other chicks..got none, got her back. I think she's like his security blanket in that he keeps her around in case he doesn't get any. It's sad that she lets him do that but it's probably why he goes for the girls he does...

We literally all know how this ends so it really doesn't make sense to me.

 

[themildone]

He already broke up with her once trying to bang other chicks..got none, got her back. I think she's like his security blanket in that he keeps her around in case he doesn't get any. It's sad that she lets him do that but it's probably why he goes for the girls he does...

We literally all know how this ends so it really doesn't make sense to me.

I can tell you from experience that she's probably super insecure and doesn't know she deserves better

 

[Jsws91]

Do set masters still come up? I used to do those a few years back

 

[Jharkan]

You are the friggin bombdiggety.

thanks
I'll add that info to my dating profile

 

[sofaslug]

 

[Mecca]

I can tell you from experience that she's probably super insecure and doesn't know she deserves better

He literally has always picked awkward shy girls, she's been in my house 50000 times and she never ever speaks to me or anyone else. She also acts very naive but she's 16 and he's 19, she still has 2 more years of high school.

I think he is thinking he can bang a bunch of college chicks and she won't even know.

 

[jan]

I really didn't get much done yesterday other than we took our son to college. This should be pretty interesting how this plays out...we went on vacation with him and he tried to bang some girl within a day while having a girlfriend.

Now before leaving we asked him if he needed condoms and he's like "I'm not cheating on my girlfriend" it's like uh huh sure...I guess I just don't understand why you would want to keep a relationship when you're leaving for college and she's still in high school.

Oh well overall I think it'll be good for him since he needs some real world experience and he honestly had become to comfortable in life.

Don't ask next time.
(just pack them)

 

[themildone]

Don't ask next time.
(just pack them)

at that age if I was planning on having sex, even if it wasn't cheating on anyone, I would have been too embarrassed to say yess

 

[Jharkan]

it's actually a lousy book - it's all words and no pictures

 

[Mecca]

Don't ask next time.
(just pack them)

LOL the problem is, he took her with him when we dropped him him and I guarantee if he had unpacked in front of her..which he did do in front of all of us cause he needed help being organized. That would have led to a fit from him and then one from her.

I completely get your point but he's the type of kid that thinks he knows everything and would have somehow spun that into we want him to cheat on his gf and then she'd hate us and not him etc etc.

 

[Mecca]

at that age if I was planning on having sex, even if it wasn't cheating on anyone, I would have been too embarrassed to say yess

He's not embarrassed he's trying to keep up a facade because he doesn't want any of us telling his girlfriend what he's going to be doing..I fully expect since he has a car there, that he will be at the local walmart buying condoms within days. He just doesn't want us to know about it.

 

[katarina]

LOL the problem is, he took her with him when we dropped him him and I guarantee if he had unpacked in front of her..which he did do in front of all of us cause he needed help being organized. That would have led to a fit from him and then one from her.

I completely get your point but he's the type of kid that thinks he knows everything and would have somehow spun that into we want him to cheat on his gf and then she'd hate us and not him etc etc.

He's a teenager...they all think they know everything. Just tell em once, and you've done your job. He'll have to learn on his own, like most of us do. He'll most likely end up being a better person in the long run for it, as mistakes are how you grow (Unless he becomes a criminal, but I doubt that)

 

[ducky]

He literally has always picked awkward shy girls, she's been in my house 50000 times and she never ever speaks to me or anyone else. She also acts very naive but she's 16 and he's 19, she still has 2 more years of high school.

I think he is thinking he can bang a bunch of college chicks and she won't even know.

This post makes me sad and I feel bad for that girl

 

[GRR]

Do set masters still come up? I used to do those a few years back

There was a batch up yesterday

 

[Mecca]

This post makes me sad and I feel bad for that girl

I feel sad for her too, his mom and I have talked about this she feels the same. He is very much like his dad and his dad will fuck anything that moves if he thinks he can get away with it.

I fully said that if this relationship lasts it's because she's to naive to realize what he's doing.

 

[Kerek]

( @Liz)

 

[Mecca]

He's a teenager...they all think they know everything. Just tell em once, and you've done your job. He'll have to learn on his own, like most of us do. He'll most likely end up being a better person in the long run for it, as mistakes are how you grow (Unless he becomes a criminal, but I doubt that)

I basically agree with everything you said here, it's why after 1 conversation we didn't bring it up again.

 

[jan]

Okay, be good everyone!
I've got to go to my work-gig.