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This feeling has to pass eventually. It. Has. To. I did all I could. I literally did all I could.

You went above and beyond, peach bro. It's just that it takes two to make thing sort of thing work, not just the one person making all the effort.
 

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I would still be willing to be her friend while she's away. Show her I'm still there for her even without the label. Because I do care about her a lot. Then in the future who knows. That's really the only option left if she ever gets back in touch. That or not speak till she's out. I rather be there for her, though.


This is officially the last post I'll ever make on the subject matter. Come Hell or high water
 
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This feeling has to pass eventually. It. Has. To. I did all I could. I literally did all I could.

It does. I remember waaaayyyyy back when I was 19 and my first and only love dumped me. I cried and I moped and slid into a state where all I listened to was NIN. It passed. About 6 months later I met my husband (20 years ago now) and am friends with my ex who now has 3 daughters of his own and apologized for being such a dickturd.
 

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I would still be willing to be her friend while she's away. Show her I'm still there for her even without the label. Because I do care about her a lot. Then in the future who knows. That's really the only option left if she ever gets back in touch. That or not speak till she's out. I rather be there for her, though.


This is officially the last post I'll ever make on the subject matter. Come Hell or high water
Here's the bottom line... If it's meant to be, it will happen. I dated the dude I spoke of earlier when I was a freshman/sophomore in HS. Then he came back when I was in college and we tried another year and a half. I loved him. I still do. We are very incompatible though, regardless of feelings.
 

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I would still be willing to be her friend while she's away. Show her I'm still there for her even without the label. Because I do care about her a lot. Then in the future who knows. That's really the only option left if she ever gets back in touch. That or not speak till she's out. I rather be there for her, though.


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Also, never settle for less than you want or deserve. I know I'm going all "mom" on your ass right now. Trust me, she will come back if she realizes it was a mistake. If not, let her go. There are better things awaiting you. Let her know the door is open and move on as best you can for the moment.
 
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Also, never settle for less than you want or deserve. I know I'm going all "mom" on your ass right now. Trust me, she will come back if she realizes it was a mistake. If not, let her go. There are better things awaiting you. Let her know the door is open and move on as best you can for the moment.
No, I appreciate all this. I really do. I know I treated her like a queen. At least I can hang my hat on that if she doesn't come back. At least I don't have any regrets of not treating her right. I tried my best. It's only been a week of her and I not talking and she moves in a couple months. I'm hoping she at least wants to meet up before she moves, but that is not in my control. This is all out of my control now. I let her know the door was open before we stopped talking last week. So that is that, at least.
 
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Also, never settle for less than you want or deserve. I know I'm going all "mom" on your ass right now. Trust me, she will come back if she realizes it was a mistake. If not, let her go. There are better things awaiting you. Let her know the door is open and move on as best you can for the moment.
20 years from the breakup I thought I'd never get over and I'm currently listening to my 6 year old fart in his sleep after he woke up looking for me. Life rarely goes as planned. There is a saying, even though I'm not a believer, "Man plans, God laughs."
 
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No, I appreciate all this. I really do. I know I treated her like a queen. At least I can hang my hat on that if she doesn't come back. At least I don't have any regrets of not treating her right. I tried my best. It's only been a week of her and I not talking and she moves in a couple months. I'm hoping she at least wants to meet up before she moves, but that is not in my control. This is all out of my control now. I let her know the door was open before we stopped talking last week. So that is that, at least.
I've met up with mine on a couple of occasions before I settled down. Hopefully you can have that at the very least. It helps with closure.
 
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I've met up with mine on a couple of occasions before I settled down. Hopefully you can have that at the very least. It helps with closure.
I was friends with my ex-fiance for quite a few years, even after I married someone else. We've drifted apart the last few years but we still touch base a couple times a year and there are good feelings there. He was my first love and we met young so he was a big part of my life.

We had a tumultuous relationship and it ended up that we worked much better as friends.
 
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I was friends with my ex-fiance for quite a few years, even after I married someone else. We've drifted apart the last few years but we still touch base a couple times a year and there are good feelings there. He was my first love and we met young so he was a big part of my life.

We had a tumultuous relationship and it ended up that we worked much better as friends.
Same here. He's the first person I message on Facebook if I come across some of the Sci-fi collectibles he's into or if I think of something random that happened back in the day. He told me he still tells people "I used to date a girl that thought 'Closer' was the most romantic song she'd ever heard..." He's very much in love with his wife and I love my husband, but there will always be something that kind of binds us and with age, we've been able to recognize and accept that.
 
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