05/23 - Mr. Owl Monday!

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first post in 2 days. haven't done a single hit. no motivation :disappointed:
It just hasn't been peach season, don't worry though things will pick up. Just make fun of Pleco and hit on his wife. It keeps me motivated. :angelic:
 

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first post in 2 days. haven't done a single hit. no motivation :disappointed:
Peachy, there's a ginormous A9 batch, if you live in a state that's eligible. Something to take your mind off things, at least.
 
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Y'all. To be honest, I'm having some anxiety about going through this dude's moms house (who is dying) tomorrow. I have PTSD and GAD after my dad killed himself... Not gonna say more than that in a public forum but am happy to discuss in private. Now I'm dreading going through someone else's lifetime of memories. The person I'm working with also has PTSD (Iraq and he handles it very differently than I do, and likely has very different triggers.). I'm worried about tomorrow. Usually hanging onto someone (generally my husband) helps ground me when I'm losing it but I can't exactly grab onto someone else with PTSD. Plus, it's unprofessional since we're coworkers. Idk. The unprofessional thing prob isn't an issue. Everyone in the office knows me and my issues (even him and we've discussed our PTSD at length but only after copious amounts of alcohol.) I just think the guy I'm going out with will not be as nurturing/grounding as I need in such a situation and I'm freaking out a bit. I know this isn't a board for therapy. Just needed to type that shit out in hopes of letting it go. At least for the day. I generally put on a pretty good front but I'm worried about going through someone else's stuff to look for items of value or meaning.
 
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Now you have a crush on him, too? He's really not that great guys. He has some sort of spell over this place.
No I was just being fair. My girlfriend doesn't turk and is not a big fan of rodents making it a largely pyyrhic offer should he indulge. That's why it works for me. See I'm crazy like a... uh... crazy thing.
 
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No I was just being fair. My girlfriend doesn't turk and is not a big fan of rodents making it a largely pyyrhic offer should he indulge. That's why it works for me. See I'm crazy like a... uh... crazy thing.
That's very nice of you. I'm also crazy so I can relate.
 
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Y'all. To be honest, I'm having some anxiety about going through this dude's moms house (who is dying) tomorrow. I have PTSD and GAD after my dad killed himself... Not gonna say more than that in a public forum but am happy to discuss in private. Now I'm dreading going through someone else's lifetime of memories. The person I'm working with also has PTSD (Iraq and he handles it very differently than I do, and likely has very different triggers.). I'm worried about tomorrow. Usually hanging onto someone (generally my husband) helps ground me when I'm losing it but I can't exactly grab onto someone else with PTSD. Plus, it's unprofessional since we're coworkers. Idk. The unprofessional thing prob isn't an issue. Everyone in the office knows me and my issues (even him and we've discussed our PTSD at length but only after copious amounts of alcohol.) I just think the guy I'm going out with will not be as nurturing/grounding as I need in such a situation and I'm freaking out a bit. I know this isn't a board for therapy. Just needed to type that shit out in hopes of letting it go. At least for the day. I generally put on a pretty good front but I'm worried about going through someone else's stuff to look for items of value or meaning.
My best suggestion is to try and keep a friend, loved one, someone who can help you through rough times on speed dial tomorrow. I think if you are just very aware of how your surroundings are affecting you and him, without trying to suck it up or any of that macho BS you will make it through okay. If it really comes down to it come here and we'll shit post with you, or talk to you, or just distract you with our charmingly tacky irreverence. The core group of Turkers I see on here regularly (especially into the nights) are like a community. I won't get hokey and say family, but friends for sure. Friends help each other out. Even if it's just with jokes, or HITs, or sHITs and giggles. We're all pro-Spooky people.

EDIT: Disregard this frankly startling level of lucidity and personal concern from me. It won't be repeated, lest greatly required.
 

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Now you have a crush on him, too? He's really not that great guys. He has some sort of spell over this place.
His magic has no sway over me. I don't like him. Not one bit. Shifty, that one.

Heard he boils a mean sweet potato, though.
 
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My best suggestion is to try and keep a friend, loved one, someone who can help you through rough times on speed dial tomorrow. I think if you are just very aware of how your surroundings are affecting you and him, without trying to suck it up or any of that macho BS you will make it through okay. If it really comes down to it come here and we'll shit post with you, or talk to you, or just distract you with our charmingly tacky irreverence. The core group of Turkers I see on here regularly (especially into the nights) are like a community. I won't get hokey and say family, but friends for sure. Friends help each other out. Even if it's just with jokes, or HITs, or sHITs and giggles. We're all pro-Spooky people.

EDIT: Disregard this frankly startling level of lucidity and personal concern from me. It won't be repeated, lest greatly required.
I'm crying right now. Thank you. I like this guy and he's very protective and sweet. He generally cracks jokes (like I do) about our anxiety and how fucked up we are. From what I've seen, he tends to withdraw when he's upset. But the things that upset me aren't the things that upset him, I think... So I hope we'll be ok. 15 years ago I'd have thought holding onto a coworker would be grounds for sexual harassment. Now, I see how damaged we all are in our own ways. Thank, RaffRiff.
 

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I'm sorry, Ladies of a9...
but I like seeing titties smaller than mine, sagging worse. It makes me feel good about myself. So, Thank you.
depends on the sexyness of the pictures though too. most of these titties are just hanging out there. A nice pose goes a long way :p
 
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